{"id":181,"date":"2005-01-03T11:46:37","date_gmt":"2005-01-03T16:46:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/homemaderavioli.com\/woodstock\/weblog\/?p=181"},"modified":"2005-01-03T11:46:37","modified_gmt":"2005-01-03T16:46:37","slug":"no-its-not-ok","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.homemaderavioli.com\/woodstock\/weblog\/2005\/01\/no-its-not-ok\/","title":{"rendered":"No, it&#8217;s not OK"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What do you do when someone you love does something that merits one and then delivers a sincere apology?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I&#8217;m sorry.  I didn&#8217;t mean to kill your plant while you were on vacation\/break your favorite coffee mug\/hurt your feelings\/step on your foot\/insult your mother&#8217;s cooking\/leave four squares of toilet paper on the rod and no spare in the bathroom cupboard&#8230;again\/insert the interpersonal transgression of your choice here.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>What do you say to that?  <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s OK&#8221; just doesn&#8217;t seem right; after all, if it was really OK it wouldn&#8217;t be an act that merits an apology.  &#8220;Don&#8217;t do it again&#8221; seems way too judgemental, particularly if the apology is heartfelt.  And &#8220;apology accepted&#8221; just seems too formal and cold to me for some situations.<\/p>\n<p>So why is it we can get advice on making a proper apology but not on accepting one?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What do you do when someone you love does something that merits one and then delivers a sincere apology? I&#8217;m sorry. I didn&#8217;t mean to kill your plant while you were on vacation\/break your favorite coffee mug\/hurt your feelings\/step on your foot\/insult your mother&#8217;s cooking\/leave four squares of toilet paper on the rod and no [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-181","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-thoughts","7":"entry"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.homemaderavioli.com\/woodstock\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/181","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.homemaderavioli.com\/woodstock\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.homemaderavioli.com\/woodstock\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.homemaderavioli.com\/woodstock\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.homemaderavioli.com\/woodstock\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=181"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.homemaderavioli.com\/woodstock\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/181\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.homemaderavioli.com\/woodstock\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=181"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.homemaderavioli.com\/woodstock\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=181"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.homemaderavioli.com\/woodstock\/weblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=181"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}